I assume you suffer from protanopia or deuteranopia. My father did. (I don't.)
I worked with a guy with that problem. One day he asked me to help him pick colors for a Web site. It was causing him all kinds of confusion. I showed him a fluorescent-green pen, and asked him what color it looked to him -- "Orange". (That doesn't mean he saw it in the way a person with normal color vision would see orange. Rather, he could not distinguish it from what we would call orange.)
Peter Wensberg, the author of "Land's Polaroid" (a beautifully written and wonderfully entertaining book) told how, during a lunch of Chinese takeout, Dr Land administered one of the standard color perception tests (the kind with colored circles, where you indicate which letter or number you see). Wensberg utterly flunked it, getting every one wrong.
I've lived with fluorescent light for more than 60 years, and have never suffered (except in my early days at Microsoft, when the office lights gave me (and some others) headaches). It appears to me that your suffering is primarily aesthetic.