Actually I was heartened to see that the two of you had some civil dialog there. I am in a similar position of looking for work (as opposed to a job). So I feel his pain. I'm also too old to get a regular job, not that I want one. At 58 1/2 companies won't even look at me.
I get what you are saying, but this is like only eating with a knife and fork when you are dining with people you know. Do you stand over the sink to eat and wipe your mouth on your sleeve when it's just you?
Not only is it the poor manners of the participants, it's the seeming compulsiveness of it. Is it possible for all of you to ever stop or do none of you have any self control?
Not that I am a perfect example, but when some of the oddballs here cast aspersions about my intellectual abilities, I have to laugh long and loud before I consider responding.
Think of it like smoking cessation. How long do you think you can go today without responding to any of the insults or idiotic posts? (maybe including this one?)
Rick