No free lunch for the other mfgs. AFAIK they have some confidential hooks in there like gated oscillator code that SPICE normally doesn't do. Since the other mfgs can't touch that LTC has secured a nice chunk of the market. If a client needs hi-rel and a design that's vetted as far as possible before prototyping I always try to find an LTC part. I just completed another one two days ago and the sims raised the office temperature by a couple degree which is kind of nice this time of the year.
Ugly, but hey, if it works it works.
A hard 50V with almost zero source resistance? Probably ... *PHUT*. If it's the small CPC1008 OptoMOS relays they are slow so 1msec is normal for them. But as usual the datasheet has scant information, for example no SOA data. Without that information it's hard to say for sure even if a few of them test ok.
One of our lab/office dogs doesn't. Whenever I do stress testing and something goes poof she scurries out of the lab, turns around at the door, gives me the look, goes to the farthest corner of the office next door and plops herself onto a pillow with a deliberately loud sigh.