You can only see the world through your own eyes and never anyone else's. Tesla isn't going to let others use their chargers for nothing. They've had an open invitation from the start to let others use their network, but only if they participate in building it out. Since that is happening, it is clear users will use it even if you don't. Your expectations are nothing like the general public. They see the many, many big, red Supercharger stalls around California and elsewhere and will want to use them in part because they aren't much more expensive than charging at home!
The "free" chargers will go away once the market starts to level off and EV subsidies are no longer expected, even in California.
So???
Look at those prices. $0.28 per kWh sound like a bargain.
I don't know why you don't look at the facts. Chademo is dead according to Nissan and EA. Plan to eventually buy an adapter or go back to level 2 hopping. How long do you expect free charging from Cal Tran?