Introspection may help. When the world *seems* wrong, sometimes it isn't necessarily that the world actually *is* wrong. In any case, I think you've earned at least some of the responses you've received. -- not all, but some. And your elsewise behavior hasn't motivated me to defend you (or even believe I *could* have helped) in those cases where I may have felt differently.
No, I'm not going to debate netiquette with folks you cannot bring here. When you bring up statements by others who cannot be here themselves, it is fruitless. The reason is simple -- they aren't here and I can't talk to them and they cannot reply. Which only leaves me debating your interpretations against mine of what others may have or may not have intended. They might, should they themselves see the evidence and issues first-hand, change their minds and admit they were wrong or else tell you that you misunderstood what they said. You have to defend yourself on the points and merits as best you can, without recourse to citing your authorities, whom cannot be here and make their own evaluations and statements for themselves. And I won't be party to debating what those folks may or may not believe about some specific situation.
Jon