I had a so-so voice when I joined the choir (low expectations). My wife sings Soprano and I sang melody line a third or a fifth lower (generally). At one point I met some of the Westchester Chordsmen and was invited to try out. To my amazement, I passed the audition and they put me in as a bass. About the same time, church choir took a summer break. Two months of Chordsmen rehearsals, we started church choir rehearsals again. Choir director has us do the first song and after five bars, stops everything, looks at me and asks 'just **WHAT** have YOU been doing over the summer?'. I was a bit embarrassed, but then realized learning a bit of good technique makes all the difference. I still struggle reading sheet music but can 'woodshed' out some decent harmonies. Not sure that the Nuns always like it but I often try to finish a song in barbershop style on a seventh chord.
Wife and I are Associate members of "Sisters of Divine Compassion", an order of Nuns. I'm one of four men in the association. My wife thinks it hysterical that I've been in more of the convent 'private spaces' than she has. The good sisters ask me to help with A/V setups and computers... Oppie