They screwed up, they bear the cost.
Dave is an Australian, living in Australia. Why would (or should) he care about US law? Do you consider Australian law whilst going about your day to day business?
That's bullshit. How can you vandalise something you legally own?
Why not? He seems to not be breaking any Australian law. Why does he have to justify himself to you particularly regarding the laws of another country? Your questioning him demonstrates your arrogance towards a law abiding citizen of another country.