Negotiation

Dec 20, 2008 8 Replies

How often do you find you're in an uneven negotiation where the power seems to be with your adversary? What do you do? How do you develop the discipline to discover what you don't know? Mike Settle. snipped-for-privacy@gmail.com

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I know what to do. And when.


Sure you do. Just consider the source: gmail/googlegroups ;-)

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Sure. You spam.

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aioe.org, Goggle Groups, and Web TV users must request to be white listed, or I will not see your messages.

If you have broadband, your ISP may have a NNTP news server included in your account:

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There are two kinds of people on this earth: The crazy, and the insane. The first sign of insanity is denying that you're crazy.

Walk away and try somewhere else where there is no adversary. It's better to have no competition; the margins are better.

John

Or, objectively determine if their power/advantage is justified. If it is, a prudent person might reevaluate the situation. You know, learn about where they are coming from and why.

Not when you get pulled over.

-- Boris

Or ask yourself why you always end up in adversarial negotiations. _Good_ negotiations are a pair of new friends trying to make sure they'll still be friends at the end of a contract. For negotiations that start out adversarial I'm with you (unless you're trying to negotiate yourself out of a speeding ticket -- in that case walking/driving away probably isn't wise).

Tim Wescott Control systems and communications consulting http://www.wescottdesign.com Need to learn how to apply control theory in your embedded system? "Applied Control Theory for Embedded Systems" by Tim Wescott Elsevier/Newnes, http://www.wescottdesign.com/actfes/actfes.html

In the latter case, I prefer to walk away well in advance. For example, by hiring a driver along with the car in 3rd world countries.

Best regards, Spehro Pefhany

"it\'s the network..." "The Journey is the reward" speff@interlog.com Info for manufacturers: http://www.trexon.com Embedded software/hardware/analog Info for designers: http://www.speff.com

Depends on if you prefer to be clubbed, shot, or tased.

Cheers! Rich

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