Boy, that's just nasty, idn't it?
I assume that the problems come about because the high capacitance that you're driving, plus the high resistance of the FET, make a fairly low- frequency pole.
Given the amount of overhead that you have out of the opamp, following R231 with a lead-lag network with a zero to match (as well as you can) the FET/load capacitance pole and a pole as high as you can get while retaining sufficient gate drive, might calm things down. Of course, it'll have to work for all possible source impedances of the FET, and that is a moving target - but hey, that's why you get the big bucks:
lead/lag | R231 ||-+ ___ ___ ||