Based on a bit of datasheet prowling, none of the IR parts seem to have gate zeners. With enough gate capacitance, the ESD hazard is small.
I've tested a few mosfets that we have in stock, and none have gate zeners. It takes essentially zero current to blow out the gates.
John
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You've told me so much yet so little!!
It seems the real issue is that parasitic impedance can cause ringing which can exceed the gate voltage. I suppose it's best to let the user decide what he wants to do.