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We were discussing how *current* technology affords possibilities that are now much more practical. E.g., my reference to video conferencing, etc. I.e., "If you can watch *theater quality* multimedia over a home internet connection"/ I don't see "3 KHz" and "home internet connection" making ANY sense together unless you're using a dialup modem!
His comment was that "being around other people is fun." I countered that those other people might not share his enthusiasm! I.e., they are *forced* to be together by the artificial requirements of the workplace.
Those SAME PEOPLE would probably NOT want to "get together" at 9AM for a *social event* (party) with each other. Nor attend an early morning movie. etc.
Left to their own devices, they would probably NOT socialize together (how many % of the folks that you have worked with over your career have you spent any amount of "unconstrained" time with? dinner, parties, outings, etc.??)
Sure, they are in the situation that they created. Though you don't know how much choice they had in its creation. Nor in their ability to *change* it.
I worked with a guy who made a real "snippy" comment to me about how "blessed" my life was -- in comparison to his. Then, went on to describe how he had to drop out of college, start working at 19, etc. I.e., "poor me". He wasn't very happy when I replied, "And whose choice was it to knock up your wife OUT OF WEDLOCK?" (i.e., why is that something
*I* should be sympathetic to??)Exactly. You wouldn't *be* there any time unless you *had* to! You wouldn't spend time with those folks (pretty much) unless you
*had* to! This is an extension of my argument above.Being around people is fun. When it is by MUTUAL CHOICE and not artificially imposed by a work environment, etc.
I *have* to deal with those people while providing my volunteer services. Or, decide that the volunteer effort is "not worth it" in those circumstances. (just like "fellow employees").
But, an organization sponsored *party* -- even one at which I will be recognized and "rewarded" for my efforts -- is entirely
*my* time. I'll spend that time with the folks I *want* to spend it with!