Hi Chris,
ADF4360, differential, and no. The low-capacitance PIN diode idea (from John Larkin) worked fine, so I'm going to stick with that. In fact, I'll probably stick two of them in series to get even a litle lower capacitance (they're 0.2pF each, so it doesn't take many until you're starting to fight PCB parasitics... as-is I'll probably remove the copper directly under the diodes).
---Joel