I just checked the Sierra Club website for their take on RoHS, expecting a deluge of Rah-Rah acclaims, but I found only one reference, in a local Ohio newsletter, which simply lauded the Europeans for being responsible, and chiding Washington for dragging their heels. Even a search for "lead free" only came up with a few references, the first of which talked about California laws banning lead contaminated candy which was thought to be causing poisoning among Latino children, while it was found that the cause was actually from their eating fried grasshoppers which came from villages near abandoned US lead mines.
Meanwhile, I have stripped my house of its dangerous asbestos siding, and scraped away layers of what was most likely lead paint (the chips were quite heavy), and I disposed of the debris as carefully as possible, taking it to a designated area of a local landfill. As a homeowner I could do this for no fee, but contractors must pay a hefty price, which probably entices many of them to sneak the nasty stuff into ordinary disposal. I'm sure there are many more ways for this sort of dangerous lead bearing material to get into the environment and the food chain (which may include contaminated dirt, for young children).
I don't think car batteries are a real problem, as the lead is safely contained, and most of them are probably recycled. I think junk yards and repair shops are required to do so, there are recycling centers that take batteries, and auto parts stores offer trade-in for old batteries.
The problem with electronic items I think is not so much the chance of minute amounts of hazardous substances getting into the environment, but the huge waste of so much material being discarded at such a rapid pace. This is true for too many things we have. We are constantly bombarded with ads encouraging us to buy the latest gizmo and simply toss out last year's unfashionable junk. There are some valid reasons for upgrading to newer technology, but often manufacturers simply change the style or add unnecessary "cool" features just to make products obsolete and get fresh revenue from a line of new things.
I am fortunate not to have products which must meet RoHS requirements, but I am still affected by the availability of parts, and the known problems of some RoHS compliant parts and materials. I am a strong supporter of most efforts to save our environment, but much of RoHS seems to miss more important issues.
Paul