That's quite common in The Netherlands. Quite a few people emigrated from the Dutch East Indies when the VOC ran things back in the old days. It makes for some interesting scenery in Amsterdam's Red Light district.
That's usually the sign of a bunch of jealous women protecting their 'territory' combined with weak men. See the other part of this thread about hive-based species (matriarchal). They drive out competing females (other hives) and maintain control over their males.
In more advanced societies, the men don't oppress interesting looking females. They just try to date them. ;-)
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On Wed, 05 Dec 2007 09:02:23 -0500, Fred Bloggs posted:
Methinks you have misparsed (yes, I know, but it _should_ be a valid word) his sentence. While it looks like it is easy enough to misparse, the last part of it clarifies what he meant.
(Or, if you apply the 'one drop of blood' rule that they used to use in the South) (to apply to whites)
It was meant to parse as "If you apply the rule that used to be used in the south, and apply that same rule to whites, then..."
Bullshit. Cite your evidence. I can immediately cite evidence to the contrary, but I think it'll be amusing to let you try to tread water while you attempt to pull evidence out of your ass supporting this position. I'll give you a hint: There are certain criteria you can use to marginally enhance your chances at a successful marriage, but no matter how you look at any group of marriages, they are increasingly all approaching the norm in divorce rate. And, realistically, what kind of careful selection are you talking about? Are you assuming the woman you marry isn't going to change? They change instantly upon marriage. The best you can hope for is to run their credit, see what their mom looks like, and get them while they are young before they have any other marriages, kids, or serious relationships to drag along as baggage into a marriage.
Mo and I went to City Hall and got married in the rotunda by a really nice lady in a black robe. Cost $20. Then we went to Stars Cafe and had lunch, with champagne.
A lot of women want a big wedding, and sort of go into a frenzy preparing for it.
I went to one surprise wedding on East Brother Island. We thought it was a picnic, so we wore jeans and t-shirts, but then the bride-and-grooms kids (from previous) came and told us all to go around to the back of the lighthouse. There they were, tux and wedding dress, with a preacher.
Ours was in a Unitarian church with the reception in the basement. We were under age, so no open bar, though someone spiked the punch bowl after the kiddies got theirs.
Especially the mothers.
Oh, I thought you were going to say you surprised the bride and groom. ;-) A trip to Vegas isn't a bad idea either.
When my daughter got married I gave her a good sum of money a few months before the wedding and told her to use her own discretion in how it was spent. She could use all or part of it on the wedding and use whatever was left towards buying a house.
She had a nice, but not extravagant, wedding and kept enough to use as a down payment on a house.
It's amazing how sensible a girl can be when she's managing things herself. The ones that overspend on a wedding are usually the ones where all the checks come out of the parents' checking account and the bride-to-be loses touch with the total amount of spending.
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