This product is in it's twelfth year, so long-term is here, now. The board s are integrated into chassis which is where they sheered off the tall caps , so no, I don't think they are any less ham-fisted.
The alignment pins are not soldered. But the hole to pin clearance is not large and the surface mount pins are long enough to yield a bit, so the ali gnment pins take the brunt of any sideways stress.
The mating connector on the test fixture does have soldered pins. That con nector has seen many thousands of uses.
I have trouble with the power cords on laptops. The connectors protrude fa r too much and act as a lever arm allowing damage to the mating connector w hen the laptop is actually used in the lap or in bed. The connector is not SM rather mounted to the case, but the connector itself breaks so that the mating connector no longer is held securely. When I fix this one I think I'm going to run a wire out the back and let it be a captive cable with the connector on the end.
Sure, but the "if you can" is a big issue. There was literally no way I co uld have built my current board if the connector used both sides of the PWB . It was barely possible with SMT.