You've been inhaling too many solder fumes, Charlie. As I recall it, it's _The Joy of *SEX*_! :>
There are lots of tutorials on-line that will help you with the details of sweatig a joint (with photos, etc.). So, I'll only concentrate on the stuff they tend to forget to tell you!
First things first. Some general things to know...
"Plumbing takes THREE trips". By my count, you've only made
*two*! So, plan on (at least) one more! :-/Don't use a ball valve for a hose bibb or any other "rate control" valve. A ball valve can only be used as a "stop" (full on/full off). Operating it in any other position will lead to erosion (aka valve failure) -- esp with aggressive water! They are also problematic in that they can be operated "too quickly" (think: "water hammer") which can actually cause bits of plumbing and appliances to *fail* [I suspect you have NOT purchased a ball valve so this shouldn't apply to you]
Consider using a "boiler drain" instead of a hose bibb. Most hose bibbs have the operating handle/knob oriented parallel to the ground *or* at a 45 degree incline therefrom. As the knob ends up very close to the wall of the house, operating the knob with your hand ends up scraping your knuckles against the side of the house. Not a big deal if your house is clad in cedar shingles. But, a different experience, entirely, when your knuckles are brushing up against stucco!
As a rule of thumb, the diameter of the pipe determines how far the pipe is intended to penetrate into fittings. E.g., a 3/4" pipe will extend 3/4" into any fitting to which it is intended to mate. You can skim A LITTLE if need be (e.g., 5/8" if your pipe is 1/8" too short) but Code wants this nominal penetration (and I tend to think the folks who write the Code know more about this stuff than I *ever* will -- so I just trust them!)
Give yourself room to work. Trying to sweat a joint through a tiny hole in the wall is just not worth the effort! Make the hole bigger and plan on fixing it later. This will also improve your visibility so you can check your work afterwards.
Have a pliers (I prefer needle nose for the sort of thing you are doing as they don't have as much of "heat sink" effect as, for example, gas pliers), wet rag (an old wash cloth is ideal) and flux brush on hand (along with solder, of course).
Wrap jaws of pliers with masking/duct tape to prevent them from marring "finished" surfaces -- esp for softer metals like the castings used for the hose bibbs, etc. I just use the "wet rag" that I have on hand -- wrap it around the fixture I am trying to tighten, then let jaws of pliers or pipe wrench bite into *that* instead of the metal beneath.
Remove all paint first. Ideally, with solvent taking care not to get stuff *into* the pipe as that's potable water elsewhere in your house! (also, avoid having open flame around when using any solvent -- most like to burn brightly!). If solvent won't do the trick, emery cloth or steel wool can be used. Just remember that copper is really soft and it is easy to remove lots of metal without realizing it! (you want to try to maintain the nominal O.D. of the pipe for a good fit with the fitting you'll be attaching).
The sweet spot is located at the tip of the inner blue flame from the torch. Don't be stingy with the propane (make sure you have a reasonably sized flame) yet don't be wasteful, either! Too large a flame can blow itself out!
Heat the *fitting*, not the pipe! Fitting will expand making it easier to remove from the pipe. When soldering, this action will serve to draw solder into the gap between the pipe and the fitting. Apply solder to the gap between pipe and fitting. You may find it helpful to bend the last few inches of the ROLLED solder into a 'J' shape so you can apply it to the "back side" of this fitting (as you will be "outside" looking in). Solder is a handy tool for telling if the *old* solder has liquified, yet (when removing old fitting).
Don't use pliers until the instant before you want to remove fitting as they will draw LOTS of heat away from the part and cause heated solder to resolidify.
Things cool off quickly so have everything ready before you get started. E.g., don't start heating the fitting and *then* go looking for a pair of pliers. Of course, "cool off" is entirely relative. You'll find that things cool down to the point where the solder resolidifies very quickly! But, seem to take an eternity to cool to the point where they are safe to touch! :<
When removing an existing fitting, you have to pull "straight" off as if you get it cocked it will bind and probably cool off enough to reattach itself in this new orientation (cuz you probably can't keep the torch on the fixture *while* you are pulling it off). As soon as the pliers touch the work, it will begin to RAPIDLY cool!
[You want to avoid putting too much heat into that area because you risk heating the pipe *behind* it and having THAT come off in the process. Then you have a bigger task: replacing a fitting that's even further inside the wall!]When fitting has been removed, you can EASILY reheat the end of the pipe to reliquify any remaining solder. This can be brushed off with the flux brush. Or, wiped off with the wet rag (but you need to use a very fast motion as the rag cools the pipe very quickly causing the solder to resolidify). Emery cloth and/or steel wool will knock down any fine high spots to allow the new fitting to slide on.
At least once -- probably several times! -- during this sort of operation, you will be *sorely* tempted to reach out with your hand and grab the work. Resist this temptation. You will yield to it AT MOST *once*. Thereafter, the sound of melting flesh will be indelibly etched into your memory -- along with the pain that accompanies it a few ohnoseconds later!
Oh, and did I mention DON'T TOUCH THE HEATED PART(s)? Or, put them anywhere that won't appreciate their latent heat?? (e.g., don't have your pets snooping around behind you while you're working)
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As for your specific situation...
I'd reconsider the choice of "male adapter" in favor of a
*female* adapter and a male hose bibb (or, boiler drain, as I suggested) to mate with it.When your house was originally plumbed, the plumber could easily access the pipe & fitting from EACH side of the wall! So, he could position the bibb on the pipe *exactly* where he wanted it (i.e., so the hose bibb was flush against the exterior of the house -- even if the exterior wasn't in place, yet!). Then, sweat the joint and move on...
In your case, you are planning to sweat the male adapter onto the pipe (once you've removed the coupler that is there, currently). Then, you are going to screw the (female) bibb onto this.
But, you there is *one* spot where the bibb will be mated adequately to the male adapter. You'll have to ensure the male garden hose (MGH) connection is pointed *down*. And, that the bibb is screwed on "enough" that the join between bibb and adapter won't leak (leaks INSIDE walls are big problems).
So, here's the problem: you are going to solder that male adapter onto the pipe. This will place the end of the adapter at some point in space relative to the outer surface of your house. If too far out, then you won't be able to snug the hose bibb up against the house "tight" (bibb probably wants to be fastened to the house mechanically). If not far enough out, then the bibb will bottom out against the wall of your house before the threaded connection is tight enough.
You can try to do a dry run of this by threading the bibb onto the fitting *before* sweating the fitting onto the pipe. Then, slide this assembly onto the cleaned end of the pipe to see where things settle out. If all is well, you can note the orientation of the male adapter (i.e., if you rotate it 180 degrees, then the bibb won't fit the same!) wrt "top" and remove it from the bibb prior to sweating it onto the pipe.
If you have to cut the pipe to get the assembly to fit flush against the house, then you'll probably need a "tight fit" pipe cutter. These are very small -- not the traditional style that requires several inches of clearance to "swing around" the pipe. But, they are a real PITA to use -- esp on larger dia pipes!
If you have to extend the pipe to get the assembly to fully engage the pipe, then you'll have to lengthen the pipe. Or, hunt around for a different fixture that might let you kludge a solution!
[If you have to extend the pipe, make sure you debur the ends of any new pieces that you *cut* prior to adding them. Otherwise you can end up with an annoying "whistle" and, potentially, "pinholing" of the pipe itself as the turbulence eats away at it. Type L pipe is always preferable to type M -- heavier.]When faced with this decision, here, I opted to terminate each pipe with a *female* adapter. Both male and female adapters look like large hex nuts. This allows you to put a backing wrench on the adapter to keep *it* from rotating (or being torqued!) as you screw the mating device onto/into it -- with another wrench!
For a hose bibb with a "skirt" that hides the hole in the wall, you can't access this "nut" while you are screwing the hose bibb onto the (male) adapter. This puts strain on the pipe and adapter (big deal! just don't go all King Kong and you shouldn't have a problem)
With a *female* adapter, I could "set" the adapter into the wall such that *just* the "nut" portion protruded from the wall. Then, use a *male* hose bibb that I could screw into this adapter WHILE HOLDING THE ADAPTER IN PLACE WITH A BACKING WRENCH.
[As I said, I used boiler drains -- which are inherently "male" (think "hot water heater drain valve") -- so the knobs ended up parallel to the house instead of inclined into it (or normal to it!)]No idea what sort of mechanical issues you will face. A "hose connection" (bibb, boiler drain, etc.) sees a fair bit of mechanical stress so you want to be sure the pipe and "faucet" are supported well. In my case, this is set in concrete so it's not going anywhere. If you are dealing with stucco over wood framing, you may want to look at the more conventional bibbs as they have a means of mounting the "skirt" to the structure of the house.
As with most projects, if you get tired/frustrated, stop and tackle it later when you've a clearer head. You don't want to burn the house down because you were sloppy! Or, melt some wires in the wall, etc.
Most important piece of information: plan on doing this early in the day (but AFTER your main water needs have been satisfied) so you can make one (or three) trips to the store before darkness sets in! (or the stores close)
I'll try to find a photo of what I did to give you an idea.
And, of course, you can always *ask* for clarification! :> (I use lots of words in the hope of being clear -- yet seem to always take something for granted that leaves others confused :< )
--don