See reply to what3rd who did an excellent 'rule-of-thumb' estimate.
I was VERY surprised to see approximately 0.1 coupling!
If you're stuck on using this approach, and need a model; I've already got the .asc running for various positions. However, it's easy to do a curve fit and produce k vs position, too.
Is this for isolation? high voltage separation? Have you thought of using those cheap LED 'handheld remote controllers' They transmit quite a distance, cost nothing and run on nothing, ...well almost. but you get to piggy back on VOLUME production costs. Bunch of chipsets out there.