They got a "share". It was called "Reconstruction" (AKA bend over).
They remember, alright.
It's the government. You want them to follow the rules?
That was only the beginning.
It's not just the deep South, though. I think it's more of the South's roots are agricultural rather then industrial; more individual rather than collective.
Minnesota always surprised me, though it's like most states with a large, dominate, city. Cities are more collective. If that isn't offset, it becomes an infinite money sink as people vote themselves money, to be taken from others.