The overproduction is an issue especially with wind power. Due the low CoP (about 30-40 %) you need to build 3x nominal power wind farms compared to coal/nuclear nominal power to get the same annual energy production. Thus, there are quite long periods of time in which there is a wind power overproduction (i.e. greater than the dependable power production). During overproduction and if it can't be transferred to other areas, the spot price drops to zero, making the power production unattractive. If this overproduction can be sold as resistive heating in rooms, this would reduce the need for more expensive heating sources.
Solar production is more precipitable at least in a larger network.
While up to 70 C would be required for the radiator and about 55 C in hot water production (to kill bacteria) you have to consider the temperature losses in the building heat exchanger.
With -30 C air temperatures, you may have to use district heating temperatures above 100 C, which requires a few bars of pressure to avoid evaporation. In fact people have been badly burned when some old district heating pipes have suddenly burst creating a "geyser".
A too small temperature difference between the primary sides of the building heat exchanger is an indication of a faulty heat exchanger and should be repaired.
3x to 4x sounds about right.