I think your guy got it mixed up. Oil brands have to be consistant in the additives or the would be hell to pay if an engine blew because there was Shell oil mixed with Esso or any other name on the can. That's why it says on the can, "meets or excedes (pick you current standard)" It's the viscosity you should try to stay with. When push comes to 'this is all we got ' in the middle of nowhere, use what's available. Easier to drain and refill that redo an engine.
Different viscosities of oil will separate out after extended sitting. Or so I learned 40 yrs ago, but it most likely applied to straight grade oils. Also learned the 10-30 oil is 10 oil with a long chain molecule added to give 30 consistancy when hot. If there are any Awl Bidness people reading, maybe they can shed some new onfo.
Pete