You were lucky with your automatics. I know numerous people who have either given up cars or paid north of $2k after the automatic transmission croaked. My old Audi (manual) is now beyond 200,000km and since the new owner and I are friends we talk a lot on the phone. The only things he ever mentioned was a repair after a motorcyclist took an illegal sidewalk ride and crashed into the front, plus after a frozen food truck backed into it. But no clutch job.
What I really don't like with automatics is when you get onto ice and they shift on you.