The complaint I get about 0402s is tombstoning. They are practically cubical in form factor, so the surface tension of the solder has a lot of lifting power. Maybe our PCB footprint isn't ideal, but we just avoid them. I like reference designators, so a really small part doesn't save much room.
0603s, or even 0805s, are fine down to maybe 100 ps edges. I'm toying with 35 or so now.