Yeah, I was thinking about how to avoid that little problem for a good long while last night. There is 30' of span between the wingtips on the average and how does the right tip know what the left tip is doing.
You can force a given state in both units with the first "on" command, but how do you keep them from glitching once that happens? And, once they get OUT of sync, it would be damned near impossible to get them back without returning to the "off" state to resynchronize. You could put a third copy of the circuit in the cabin with either a bicolor LED or two LEDs to show what state the third copy THOUGHT both wingtips were in, but how do you know for sure? A sense wire from both wings would let you do a comparator trick, but now you've run a second wire to both wingtips, and if you are going to do that, you've defeated the purpose of the OP.
At night it is fairly simple ... you can see that strobe flash quite easily, and the little lucite indicator below the lamp tells you whether or not the nav light is on ... but for daytime????
Amen, brother.
Jim