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Like I said, it's a bit more complicated than that. Children are actually taught to play together nicely and share their toys, and when they get a little older they usually get to learn that the community as a whole paid for the kindergarten and paid the salaries of the teachers who provided the instruction.
You seem to have forgotten most of this, so that all you can recall is being discouraged from taking other children's toys. Some people retain more detailed memories, or perhaps didn't need to be discouraged quite so emphatically.
-- Bill Sloman, Nijmegen