John L, Methinks you need to revisit the original SOW, before throwing stones...
"I'm ok with fixing and adapting circuits but not so good with design. I've come up with an electronic switch circuit but I think it could use improvement. The goal is to turn on a 12v relay with a switch that is closed when off and open when on. The switch also has to have one leg grounded. It's a pressure switch with a single terminal. I also want the relay to stay closed (on) for a couple minutes when the switch goes from on (open) to off (closed). Here's what I've got now and it does work. But I had to use a pretty big capacitor and I'm still only getting about a minute of delay when going to the off state. Because I can't make the 10k resistor any bigger. I'm thinking that it is likely possible to get a longer delay and do it with a smaller capacitor if I was better at designing this. The other flaw is that this slowly lowers the voltage to the relay until it drops. The relay stays pulled to about 3 to 4 volts. I also suspect there is a better way to keep it fully on until the rc timer expires. Thanks in advance for any suggestions :-)"
...Jim Thompson