The point was whether slow release compromises contact life. The answer is "no." Your personality issues are irrelevant.
As the OP stated they are.
Probably not. TO-220 power fets are cheap, and can dissipate a watt or so intermittently with no problem.
I suggested measurement, I designed the experiment, you did the work. When the timebase was such as to conceal the entire shot, you repeated the measurements. Fine by me; I trust your data.
And just how was I wrong? What I did was question the claim that slow release is bad for contacts. You demonstrated that it probably isn't, certainly no worse than diode clamping.
Because I do electronics, and he doesn't. And because I'm friendly with lots of people, and he insults everybody.
Impossible. He has no "defense", just lame insults.
Amateur.
John