I'm always amazed at the number of people who think this is so damned difficult to pick two caps, that you should buy a canned oscillator..
The crystal will probably "run" with any reasonable value of cap, somewhere close to it's loading spec. Indeed, most people seem to pick caps that are about half what they should be, yet they still "run".
In order to do it right though, you need to estimate your parasitics, (5pF-ish?) then double the loading spec, and subtract the parasitics. Populate with that, and check oscillation. I use a good shortwave receiver, as it does not load the circuit at all. Of course you can do a timing loop and attach a freq counter there, or whatever else works for the equipment you have.
Of course nobody would use a series crystal in a parallel circuit, you'd never be able to get it to sing the right tune! :)
There is a stability check that you should make, so on your protos, add a resistor between the osc out pin and the crystal, so you can make the test easily. In production you can zero it, or remove it entirely, as long as you don't overdrive the crystal.