Call them and ask what's the Al value. It's amazing that many magnetics suppliers don't furnish this. They could also furnish a number of other handy electrical and thermal values that are a nuisance to calculate, like gauss per ampere-turn and temperature rise per watt.
I guess also they might have Al values for different core gaps, or can this be guesstimated too? :) I don't know much about using core gaps for flybacks, is it even necessary to do if you have a core big enough that it won't saturate without a gap?
You would not normally need AL values for a ferrite core used in a flyback, as this is determined by the gap required to store the energy needed.
L = uo x N^2 x Ae / Lg
L = inductance in henries
uo = permeability of free space = 4 x pi x 10E-7
N = turns count
Ae = cross-sectional area at the gap in meters^2
Lg - length of the gap im meters.
You have to determine N based on peak core flux change, limited by core loss or core saturation at the frequency and duty cycle you are preparing or able to use. To do this you need more core material information concerning it's power loss characteristics, whether the material is ferrite or powdered material.
As powdered material has a distributed gap, it will not normally be merchandised without reference to it's permeability or the part's AL value
For ferrite parts, if the frequency is lowish or the part is very small, the flux density will likely be determined by the saturation limit.
In this case,
Nmin > V x t / ( Bsat x Ae )
Nmin = minimum turns
V = applied voltage in volts
t = period of applied voltage in seconds
Bsat = saturation flux density in Teslas
Ae = minimum cross-sectional area of the ferrite material in meters^2
( Bsat of ferrite ~ 0.33T @ room temperature ) ........................................................
You seem already to have determined that 1mH of primary inductance is desirable, by some method or other. Note that depending on the operating frequency, a certain peak current will be expected in this primary inductance in order to deliver the required output power.
This is determined by the rough formula
P = L x Ip^2 x f / 2
P = delivered power and all losses in Watts
L = primary inductance in Henries
Ip = peak primary current in Amps
f = pulse repetition rate in Hertz
Please do some reading. The old Unitrode/ Texas Instrument app notes cover flyback converters and flyback transformers pretty clearly.