I believe many of them are functionally retired and don't need to work. Others work part time and do consulting.
Yeah, it will be hard to find anything more powerful in QFP. Normally they need a high pin count which requires BGA. All of the higher end devices I have seen use external memory which pushes the pin count over the top for QFP unless you can find one in a 208 pin QFP.
I don't see a DDS as being much more simple than a DAC with a lookup table. What varies on the sine wave? Does it have a slight frequency variation or amplitude?
I have no idea why you think that is a problem. This isn't juggling. This is electronics design and driving data over a few SPI ports that can all be managed though one port is not at all hard. I think you are missing the "CONVERT" signal.