I don't think you are. Regular AC SSRs use triac switching. The thing about triacs is that once they're on they don't turn off until the current drops to (near) zero. For regular AC that's the zero crossing point and happens every 20ms on 50Hz mains. But for variable-polarity DC it's a constant current and so the triac doesn't turn off while the current is there. It will next time the current goes to zero, but that may never happen.
GTO (gate turnoff) thyristors are an old way to handle that, but they're really for electric locomotive scale applications, not small scale stuff. That's what got me thinking about IGBTs.
Some of them have 3-24V inputs. I think the Crydom ones I have do that.
Those are fakes and lie about their ratings, FYI. OK if you don't take them anywhere near rated current. Also the baseplate needs heatsinking as it's just a single triac with the markings filed off.
Do small GTO SSRs even exist as a product? The only GTOs I can find are tens/hundreds/thousands of pounds?
+1. Or bistable relays if the coil current is a nonstarter.There is that.
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