That was a compliment.
I started with an Ungar wood burner at about 14 years old. The first lesson I learned is that the power cord of the iron will melt and short when I place the iron on it. It was downhill from there as my father taught me to use a large copper gas fired furnace soldering thing used to make industrial sewing machine attachments. By comparison, the Ungar seemed easy. After several years of doing everything wrong, the high skool electric shop teacher introduced me to flux. Over the years, I learned the basics, like you can hold solder in your mouth, but don't try it with copper wire. Far too many Eico, Heathkit, and Knightkit constructions were great practice.
I recently tried to teach a friends 14 year old brat how to solder. He's hopeless, but dedicated, and will eventually learn.