So the thought finally strikes me. How do you check the female socket dimension? Do you stick a male pin in and see how much friction there is? That could bend the contacts and damage the pin.
How about checking the male pin diameter when it is already installed on a connector? There's not enough room for calipers to reach the pin.
I often find the BNC connectors on my scope go intermittent due to a loose center pin. Often the only choice is to use a pair of pliers to squeeze the contacts together again. The damage appears to have been caused by some off-brand 50 ohm terminators that require an unusual mount of force to seat on the connector. But the repair doesn't last. Once the female pin has been forced open, it quickly goes intermittent again. This is a big problem since the scope connector is usually a special item that is difficult to get.
Regards,
Mike Monett