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Nah, come on, you Australians are supposed to be the masters in improvising :-)
(Saw Crocodile Dundee in L.A. yesterday)
Take a function generator and a scope. If no gen available the sound card of your PC will do if it spits out a decent sine wave. Place a resistor is series with the winding and feed at the top. Now measure the amplitude at the top (where the gen connects) and then again across the coil. This is like a voltage divider. The ratio will tell you the impedance Z of the coil at, say, 15kHz. Now
L = Z / (2 * Pi * 15kHz)
In a pinch you can also use the sound card to measure the levels.
Not sure what fuzz you mean, maybe post the sim? You can copy it into a post. As long as you don't use any fancy part models others can then run it.
Some fuzz is actually ok, like the minor ring-out that leakage inductance causes during off times.
Well, essentially it's the flyback kind of energy in a non-flyback converters that is often not healthy, needs to be dumped somewhere so parts don't suffer. For example, if the primary FET can take 100V but the spikes want to go to 150V that needs to be taken care of.
What architecture were you looking at? Why not pick one of the LTC parts and then later after the simulation runs try out something else? For step-up and SEPIC the LT3757 is pretty good.