John Larkin hath wroth:
You should thank him. I've designed a few things in my career and had great difficulties getting anyone to spend the time reviewing the design or implementation. Everyone was busy and nobody had the time to do it. You'll find that feedback, in any form should be welcomed, not defended against. Look at it this way. If it works, YOU are the hero. If it's a better design as a result of peer review, then YOU still get the credit.
How a person packages their criticism or review should not be a consideration. Most of the people I respect are arrogant, self centered, egotistical, tactless, demanding, and short tempered. That's mostly a defense mechanism against getting overloaded with excessive work. If you did your part of the design in a reasonable manner, you'll probably get the respect you deserve. If you made a mess of things, you'll be the first to know.
Much more important is what to do when he actually delivers a proper detailed design review. If you go on the defensive, you'll never get him to look at your design again. He's just declare it to be a waste of his time as you aren't really interesting in listening to his comments.
More appropriate would be to listen carefully, do NOT pass judgment, thank him profusely for his efforts, and sneak off into a corner somewhere to objectively consider his comments. Even if you don't take any of his changes as useful, he also deserves some feedback. If you like one of his ideas, but don't have the time to implement it, then tell him so.
As for his rather odd statement, I suspect you may be reading it out of context. I analyze everything based on the assumption that everything is wrong until calculated otherwise. The most common mistakes are the result of bad assumptions. By assuming that all the calcs and design work was done wrong, I get to check both the calcs and the assumptions. Most often, the calcs are correct, but the assumption that they are based upon are wrong. If you assume that it was designed by an idiot, the assumption float to the surface where they can be inspected.