I know how you feel. I went to a liberal arts college and every day I'd see these free-spirited conventionally attractive 19 to 23 year old women around campus, talking about their sexuality, wanting you to come back to their apartment alone to have drinks and discuss their feelings on patriarchal oppression, the exchange students moping about how they couldn't wait for the warm weather to come because it was too cold to wear a bikini in Sweden regularly.
The 60/40 female-male-ratio was completely overwhelming and I really felt like I was on enemy territory. It was HORRIBLE. I have no idea how my masculinity survived intact.