You design like a TI apps. engineer, lots of silicon. Let's see a schematic so we can remove parts. The UCC2803 is a good choice. At your switching frequency, 250Hz, only
1.0mA is needed for supply current. So with input voltage from 30VDC to 50VDC, a 18K/0.25W resistor will suffice, no regulator is needed. 10K< Rt100mS. What happened to the other members of this NG? Do I have to do a complete design here? This is turning into my day job with no benefits. JF could do this with some 555s. Any more help will require good Tequila. Cheers, Harry