Look at the TC4421 and TC4422 gate driver chips, and try to limit the 'high' time to a microsecond or less, so that the duty cycle is very small, and therefore you will not need to waste a lot of power.
As long as the load is 50 Ohms, which you say it is, then you don't need a resistor at the driving end, only at the load end. Those who say otherwise are mistaken. You can test this all quite nicely if you have a fast scope and a few tens of metres of 50 Ohm coax cable, this length being desirable so that you can clearly discern the reflections or absence thereof in the waveforms. You need to have a low capacitance scope probe or you need to use the scope in 50 Ohm mode in place of the load termination for testing. Be careful not to put too much DC for too long a time into a 50 Ohms scope input as this will fry it.
Chris