I was poking around in my truck the other day and had cause to open up the starter relay. (not the solenoid, the relay that energizes the solenoid)
I was amazed at the size of the contacts. They were under 1/8" in diameter yet the relay is rated at 40 amps. The AC clutch relay- ditto, tiny contacts. In the case of the clutch relay I know for a fact the inductive kick must be >100 volts since it is shocking..
Now how can they do that, when I have lots of plug-in Potter Brumfield
12V relays with contacts easily 4 times the size and only rated at 10 amps. (240 volts AC or 28 VDC resistive)(The actual problem with the truck was not the relay itself but the intermittent neutral switch in the tranny.)