You guys are amateurs. The obvious solution is pulsing the line, just as old dial phones (including the one I still use today) worked.
If the DC variants are too much for the poster, then he can use the dial pulses to modulate an oscillator and count those at the other end. I can't even recall why this was done, but I know for some radio work they used similar schemes, though touch-tone was already in operation at that point.
Michael