H. A. Haus, Waves and Fields in Optoelectronics: Prentice-Hall, (1984). Hermann Haus was an extraordinary individual; this is a good candidate for your list.
R. H. Kingston, Optical Sources, Detectors, and Systems. New York: Academic Press, (1995). I don't know this book, and detector technology tends to go out of date, so you should look at it before adding it; but is your list perhaps a bit skimpy on books about detectors?
You know, at a certain size your list can turn into something more like a library catalog than what I think you're seeking, which is an annotated list of favorites, whose virtues and weakness are known and recognized.
If your list is going to be online, would you plan to allow readers to add amazon-style reviews and comments for each book separately?