It looks like I'll use this one:
The max output current will be a bit less than the Idss of the fets, about 1 mA maybe. That won't stress my wimpy HV supply.
There is one hazard: if an opto really turns off, D-S leakage in a fet can pull up the source and might blow out the gate.
The LND150 data sheet says it has "esd gate protection", so it's probably OK.
The quiescent current of the opamp should keep the phototransistors on a little bit anyhow. Rq represents that in the sim.