I learned all that when I worked for Canon (who make the laser engines used in most of the big brandname printers). I used to rebuild & recondition about half a dozen fuser assemblies a week, so I still remember most of the details. ;)
Good question. When I worked for Canon, we just ordered them from the spare parts department, but you should be able to find them at laser spare parts companies that cater for (any of) HP, Apple, Brother & Canon laser printers. On the part itself, you should be able to find a Canon part number, which would be formatted something like: "RG?-????-???". Googling for that part number (leave off the last '-???' part) should turn up something. Don't pay more than $10. Per Ed's earlier post, this looks like a suitable substitute:
(It's a shame I tossed my laser printer junk box the last time I moved house, or I could probably could've given you one.)
Make sure you're very careful about comparing the replacement part to the original, & in how you mount it. If the original had yellow/orange film (anti-stick) over it, you'll need to come up with some way of mounting the new thermoswicth so that it doesn't rub on the roller, or it'll scrape off the teflon coating, which will leave streaks on your printouts. The standard method is to bend the mounting bars on the thermoswitch so that it doesn't quite touch the roller.
My pleasure, I'm glad I could help.