If your current values for your loads includes the initial inrush, then I think you'll be fine. But I am worried that the strobe light includes a big capacitor that will suck lots of current for a few milliseconds, right while those contacts are bouncing to a stop, and that will eat the contacts. I think I would look for a 3 to 5 amp contact rated relay. That are pretty common. Or drive two of these in parallel and use one for the horn and one for the strobe.