Yes, that is a good rule.
I did build a system to transmit bidirectional RS-232 between buildings quite some years ago. I had a separately-shielded twisted pair cable run between buildings, about 20 pair, I think. Then, I made up little boards that had a pair of op-amp circuits on them, one a differential transmitter, the other a differential receiver. The single-ended levels were RS-232 levels, the differential signals were something like 1 V differential, so the slew rate was less of a problem. This worked great at 9600 baud. it also withstood several close lightning strikes that blew out various gear in the buildings, and completely blew up a locally-built optoisolated system for the same purpose. I assume that system was popped from the RS-232 side.
The resistances used in my differential converters plus the larger voltage range of the op-amps must have been part of why my design survived.
Your rule #1 only works if all the gear in the room is bonded to the same ground. Lots of places have several power panels feeding different equipment in one room (such as terminals on one feed, and computers on a different feed.)
Some CEs I knew long ago had a data center in downtown St. Louis that was fed from THREE different substations. The problems they had there were beyond belief. People sometimes reported sparks jumping between equipment and power panels, people being knocked on their rear ends when touching two pieces of nearby gear at the same time, and LOTS of crashes, where 5 computer systems from different vendors would crash at the same instant. One of these substatiosn was fed by a frequency converter station from Ontario Hydro, fed 25 Hz power to the substation that converted it to 60 Hz with giant roatary converters that were half a city block wide.
Jon