forgot to mention, this should be a PAL signal (Europe/Netherlands) i have this working now, reasonable picture quality (ok, colours, sharp enough to use the menu/mp3 player which is what it wanted; no snow really but does distort a bit) encountered more of the same probs (bad colours, negative, no sync), can't reproduce consistently tried different video outputs on the player (beside 'video' it also has 'coaxial' and Y, Pb/Cb, Pr/Cr outs) have a scart breakout, video seems to be the composite signal. also i wonder if the player was giving the wrong output (NTSC, PAL 60? or something in the video mode..)
could be inferiour hardware, cables... the cinch cable i use prolly has been discarded for a reason. or the channel was wrong and it was tuned to some 'echo' (don't know how to call this) i really don't have much to test it with (just the player, the tele and some wires, breadboard, batteries and leds) my first thoughts where i was overdriving something or that i should not mix the shieldings/GNDs.. but i'm really just an amateurs that figured the shiny box in the VCR did what it appeared to do, modulator video to antenna, and it does :)
thanks for the comments. i don't think i can improve much on this without getting measuring devices etc.
(note that the metafilter.com thread is from another guy, though the modulator is somewhat alike...)
regards, Berend