Frank,
The letter is to try to get you to cease and desist, or to pay a licensing fee (licensing is typically 1 to 3% of "value" -- whatever that is).
If you do not reply, or if you reply with "no way, sue me" then most companies will not waste the time. Since you are less than a billion dollars a year, chances are you don't have the money anyway, or you will likely not be in business in a year or two.
In the cold, hard, real world, legal folks are incredibly practical: only companies that make money, and are likely to be around in ten years are the targets of lawsuits (unless the people involved are just running on ego, and are willing to waste time and money).
So, the patent trolls (and companies with large portfolios) watch and wait: they keep track of how many patents you may be infringing on, and as soon as you announce passing one billion dollars in sales BINGO! the letters start arriving. Standard practice for legal departments, wait until the fish is worth catching before you put the hook in the water.
6502? What a laugh. How much money is there left to be made on this? How much money will a legal department spend? Do the math, then think about it.
There are some companies who when faced with knowingly infringing on someone's patent, consciously choose to do so. Yes, they may have to pay treble damages if they get caught (worst of scenarios) and also cease and desist. But how often do you read about someone losing a patent lawsuit like that? Often, the benefit outweighs the downside, and once brought into court, asking for a jury trial, and having a good legal team may cost you less than licensing it in the first place would have cost. Now, a good legal department won't let anyone do this, as the risk is very large, and the treble damages and shutdown is far too great a risk.
That said, in seems to happen all the time, regardless.
Some products have a six month lifecycle (like a printer). Go into business, build and sell 100,000 printers, and then disappear. Happens all the time. Do they even care about infringement? Nope, they do it again under a new name...
Getting back to ego, there are some who just love to go to court, and are willing to waste huge sums of money doing so. Eventually they run out of money, and end up bitching about their loss until they finally realize they were just stupid, and should have spent their energies more wisely. Or not. They never learn.
And lawyers never turn down a job, as even when they lose for a client, they at least get paid for it.
Austin