I can't claim to speak for everyone in the group, obviously. Every newsgroup post has an implicit "IMHO" attached. But I think it's a fair summary of the opinions of the group, or at least of those who post regularly. And very few people object to top-posting when it is appropriate - it is just the definition of "appropriate" that they disagree on...
Anyway, the key point with posting etiquette is to be (reasonably) polite and informative, and to remember it's a conversation between real people. If, as is normally the case, top-posting makes it unnecessarily harder for people to follow the sense of a post, then it is impolite and uninformative, just like posting in SMS or all caps. If top-posting makes a reply easier to read, then it is appropriate (although usually snipping would be far better).