Klaus Kragelund wrote in news: snipped-for-privacy@googlegroups.com: snip
I would make a circuit board which generates and fills the supercap, and wire the relay to that. The trigger fires it. Just like a camera flash unit, you have to wait till the cap is charged to fire it. Your trigger would be electronic.
Your cycle repeat rate takes the hit, but the store and fire PCB charge time sets that. The relay would have to be able to hold or latch on its own until released, however.
You could simply use a SSR too. or make an SSR.
Or make a direct DC to DC point of use converter that converts your sagged voltage to that required by the relay.